Predominant personality : Cool, Calm and Collected

At least that's how you like to appear on the surface!
If this is your predominant personality, you are likely to be well organised (maybe write lists), determined and straight speaking. These qualities, combined with self-discipline and an ability to focus on goals, mean you have a good chance of succeeding in your chosen field. You are usually cautious in relationships (at least to start) and don�t like to give too much away until you are sure of where you stand.

Don't worry the tag line was only meant to catch your eye! I don't have a collection of stripey jumpers, nor is there a sawn off or kalashnikov lurking in my wardrobe!

I guess this is the hard part that we all hate - trying to put into words what I'm about and what I'm looking for. Well here goes! I'm just a normal, kind, loving, honest woman who's looking for a decent, honest guy to share some fun times and lifes adventures with. Not into serial dating, one night stands or cyber sex. Looking for the real deal.

I enjoy a wide variety of things - music, live gigs, eating out, the odd glass or two of Shiraz, photography, reading, travel, criminology, sport (fanatical - sorry guys I really am), spending time with my kids and friends, laughter, exploring new places and hill climbing. Disklikes - lies, cheats, players, head games, intolerance, cruelty and arrogance. Hmmmm and not too keen on asparagus either yuk!

I love the countryside and coastal walks, cosy country pubs with good relaxed company, suppose I'd better put the obligatory nights cuddled up on the sofa with a bottle of wine and dvd. Blockbuster and Thresher must be making a mint out of us lot!

So if you think we might have something in common and you like having a laugh, why not drop me a line and see how we get on?

Thanks for taking the time to read my profile and good luck to everyone.

XxX

I'm not looking for Mr Perfect. I know he doesn't exist, but I am searching for Mr Perfect for me. Someone who's honest, loving, tactile, reliable, considerate and easy going with a decent sense of humour and a modicum of intelligence would be a bonus. I know most say looks aren't important, and whereas you don't have to look like Johnny Depp, there has to be some form of attraction - chemistry, a spark, call it what you want, but that initial 'little something' that draws you to someone definitely has to be there from the start. You might look in the mirror and see Shrek. I might look at you and see Adonis. Beauty is, after all, in the eye of the beholder!