Dating tips page

We have put together some useful tips to help you make the most of The Place To Date.com - Good luck and remember to have fun!

Sell yourself

Remember that when you are writing your profile, it is like an advertisement of yourself. Make sure it reads well and doesn't contain any spelling or grammatical errors. The most eye-catching part of you profile is your photo. Include a friendly photo of yourself and you could increase your responses by as much as 8 times!

Broaden your horizons

Just because someone is slightly younger, older or from a different town, it doesn't mean they won't turn out to be your ideal partner! We provide a search facility to vary your search settings so if your search results don't reveal anyone who catches your eye, try widening your search settings - you never know!

Get intimate anonymously

The wonderful thing about online dating is that you can get to know someone without revealing any personal details. Emails are sent using an anonymous messaging facility so take advantage of this and spend as long as you need to getting to know someone. Don't feel pressured into meeting up with someone you have just met online. If they are serious, they will be happy to wait if this is your preference.

Be brave

Don't be shy about making the first move - send them a wink! . Remember everyone online is serious about meeting someone so, if you see someone you like, contact him or her first. Don't necessarily wait for someone to contact you. The best way to get someone's attention is to ask a question specific to his or her profile. This shows you have read their profile and are interested in them.

Make conversation and be polite

Don't be afraid to compliment people. Whether you like their photo or you are impressed by the fact that they have climbed Snowdon - tell them. Everyone likes receiving compliments. Also, if you can make someone laugh or someone makes you laugh, you're on the path to a good relationship. Don't be afraid to flirt a little too (if that's how you feel), but equally don't be too flirtatious as it could be taken the wrong way. Never talk about sex or imply this is what you are looking for. Importantly, always be polite and respectful.

Keep a little mystery!

Whilst we encourage you to talk openly and honestly about yourself so that people get to know you, try not to tell your whole life story in one e-mail. Hold a little something back for the next message.

Don't be disheartened

If you've sent a message but haven't received a reply, don't be disheartened. There could be many reasons why someone hasn't replied to a message you've sent; the recipient may not have logged on for a while, their membership may have lapsed or they may not be a full member entitling them to reply back to you.

If you've sent one message then follow it up with a second message to show him or her that you are genuinely interested. If you still don't get a response, move on to the next person, The Place To Date.com has 1000's of members in your area.

Give people a chance

If you receive a message from someone who does not immediately tick all of your boxes, don't rule them out straight away. Reply back to him or her and try and find out a bit more about them. You may have more in common than you first thought and, if not, at least you can say you tried.

Be polite when rejecting

If you don't like someone who has contacted you, do not be rude or offensive. You can either ignore them or politely tell them you are not interested. We provide a facility to 'block' nuisances sending you messages so, if someone is pestering you, please use this tool.

Be safe!

Do not give anyone your home telephone number, address or workplace address until you have met a number of times and are 100% comfortable with that person. When going on a date, dress and behave appropriately and always be aware of dating safety guidelines. Please read our dating safety tips before embarking on your first date - good luck!

Be yourself!

Don't try to be someone you're not; if you like someone, it will only work if they like you back for who you really are.