Safety

The best thing about dating online is that by following the basic guidelines, it is a very, very safe way to meet other like minded people. You don't have to give away any more detail about yourself than you feel comfortable with. You have the freedom to build up a relationship slowly by exchanging messages and find out about each other without ever taking any personal safety risks. You could begin by exchanging anonymous messages, then perhaps exchange a photo. Once you are comfortable and confident with the person you are talking to, you could then perhaps arrange to meet for a date.

Always check our safety tips before meeting someone and always meet in a public place. Make sure you arrange a lift home and pick up point before you go out.

If you feel the slightest bit unsure about meeting someone or you feel you are being pressured to meet then don't! Use your instincts - your first impressions are usually right.

Remember these safety tips are not just relevant to online dating; you should always take them into consideration even if you are dating someone you have met in any other type of venue be it a pub or club you went to last weekend in Banning. The important thing is to follow the basic rules and enjoy the process!

Fun!

Finding the right relationship should be fun, shouldn't it? After all, we do it to be happy. We don't ask any awkward questions or put up any barriers, we just let you get on with meeting people.

Many busy and successful people don't have time to meet others socially, or perhaps don't like going out to pubs or clubs. It is these days more possible to meet your perfect match online, all it takes is a little time and it's the perfect way to spend the evening, browsing members from the comfort of your own home!

We love our members. They're a diverse bunch, and many members tend to be open-minded and determined to make the most of life. We don't aim to be the biggest dating site in the world: we think it's a lot more important to bring together a group of people who have a lot in common - they just haven't met yet!

Confidential

We do advise that in the initial stages of talking to someone, you get to know a know a bit about them by using our anonymous messaging system. Get a feel for the person you are talking to without revealing who you are. If you don't think they are the right person then you can simply block them and you will not receive any more messages from that person.

You want to find a partner but you probably don't want the whole world to know you're looking, right? You're in the right place. You don't have to give away your name, phone number, email address, photo or anything that will identify you at all unless you want to and feel confident to do so.

Remember, all your personal details, including your date of birth and email address, are always kept 100% secure and confidential and will never be given to anyone unless you choose to do so using our messaging system.